"I was looking for someone that I was attracted to, and I… don’t really have to consider you know, does he want to have kids or not, is he going to want to, you know, do something else down the road. I’m not structuring my whole long term life around this person, so I can stop and be willing to go ‘how do I feel when I’m with this person?’. Do I feel good, are our interactions making me happy? And kinda just really give in to what I think of as the real parts of love, rather than like, the logistics, and kind of figure the odds of whether this person is going to be a good partner for you in 10 years"
Mistress Matisse, Poly Weekly #105: Mistress Matisse Talks Poly
